People have often said I judge others, and although I really try not to it occurred to me that it in the wild you really need to be judgemental. For example, if a zebra saw a lion, would it go over and say “hey, lion, you may or may not be about to eat me so lets get to know each other before I run away”. No. They would run fast and far and probably get eaten anyway but that is beside the point. It is a natural thing to do as a method of survival, so when people use the word “judgemental” as an insult it sucks because really what they are saying is “you have survival skills equivalent to those of a zebra.” Use better insults (there are list of Shakespearian ones below that are pretty good).